Eshhh Akhil Hayy ni apa nak jadi..Dah la Ustad
Hmm.. Mak has been very concern with Akhil's recent matter. I can bet 100 per cent she is not the only one. It was not the first time she asked me that. A few days ago she asked me the same thing too. I told her I would have to wait for Akhil to call me first. Ha Ha Ha. (As if I am Waheeda).
It s not that I want to take sides. But I just cant understand why people love to jump into conclusion and make judgment by just listening to one side of the story. I just dont get it. I always believe that you have to give leeway for the other person to justify his actions or at least call for his defence. When only one person comes up and tells her/his story, you should only listen and not pass any judgment unless and until you hear the other person's side of the story. Just because one person is making all the noise it doesnt mean that she/he is right.
I always remember what Nada (ha ah Nada) said that some mothers always entertain their child who is louder. Just because one child has been pestering for the cookies, it doesnt mean that his quiet brother/sister doesnt want the cookies too.
We always tend to give favourable judgment to the one who is more vocal. Even when two children are playing and suddenly one of them comes to you crying, the first thing that will come to our mind is that his friend must have bullied or beaten him. But for all you know, the wailing kid was the one who started the fight. And just because he was in tears, it doesnt mean that he is innocent.
And with all the fuss over Akhil. Oh come on... its their marriage. He has the right not to divulge anything that he doesnt want to. Whatever the story between the three (?) of them, its only between them. Nobody really knows whats the real story behind anybody's marriage. What we see sometimes is only what they want you to see. Thats why its such a shock when a supposedly happy couple got separated beacuse a couple who hold hands in public do not necessarily cuddle in their bedroom.
And yes, a quiet child is always being taken for granted. And sometimes even an adult lady too .... ehemm.. aku kah... kah kah kah (its a laugh ok )
We always tend to give favourable judgment to the one who is more vocal. Even when two children are playing and suddenly one of them comes to you crying, the first thing that will come to our mind is that his friend must have bullied or beaten him. But for all you know, the wailing kid was the one who started the fight. And just because he was in tears, it doesnt mean that he is innocent.
And with all the fuss over Akhil. Oh come on... its their marriage. He has the right not to divulge anything that he doesnt want to. Whatever the story between the three (?) of them, its only between them. Nobody really knows whats the real story behind anybody's marriage. What we see sometimes is only what they want you to see. Thats why its such a shock when a supposedly happy couple got separated beacuse a couple who hold hands in public do not necessarily cuddle in their bedroom.
And yes, a quiet child is always being taken for granted. And sometimes even an adult lady too .... ehemm.. aku kah... kah kah kah (its a laugh ok )
OkThis is THREE sides of the story
:-p
