Do you realize that people are only interested in their own stories? People dont actually want to listen to what you have to say. Almost everybody cant wait to tell you about their life.
I know this because I am a good listener and I am a good listener because I consider myself a very private person. I rarely let anybody gets into my world. And so when anybody wants to have a conversation with me, I would just divulge myself in their world, really listening to them, counsel them at times, advise them most of the times, giving them another perspective of their problems, laugh with them of their funny incidents. And at the end of the day, out of politeness and courtesey they would ask me how am I doing. And I would just tell .. " Oh not much... you know this and this and this .." with very little details as I possibly could tell, and even if they are really interested to know more and if my radar is telling me that I'm telling too much, I would just steer the conversation back to their stories.
I guess thats why when it comes to blogging, I face a bit difficulty because I am not always sure how much should I tell.
And I guess thats why blogging is so popular because People Cant Just Wait To Tell The World of THEIR Stories. And inside everyone of us it has always been about Me, Me and Me.
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