I m wondering is it a good thing to look down at the person who has hurt you and make you angry; to feel sorry for him/her ... and to think that his/her life is such a sad world (like what I mentioned in my previous entry) ...
to look at him/her as someone beneath you ...
and by doing that you d feel more superior than that person ...
to feel like you re better than him/her ... ??
Is it really ok to have that feeling ?
I guess being angry and hurt by a person's actions towards you does give you the right to have that superiority feeling ... but only for that particular moment. This can help you feel better, calm you down a bit and not do something stupid and later regret it . But that "right" should not really last for long because if you keep holding on to that superiority feeling that you re always better than everybody else, all the time, you will then never be able to be humble ... you will never learn to be a better person ...
because you know what .... sometimes ... yes .. sometimes ... along those hurtful words that have wounded us ... there are some truths
and The Truth Always Hurts
Ouch ..
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