Do you know that people 's characters have pattern to it ?
It takes many many years for one to differentiate the various kinds of patterns in different people. But usually some common traits in certain group of people would have the same pattern of actions.
Take a look around you.You can even start observing the ones close to you, those friends. relatives and even family member.
We are all actually aware of the patterns with those close to us, like a brother of yours who suddenly becomes overly talkative and friendly with you, you will somehow know already at the back of your mind that the conversation will later end with ... "..pinjam duit sikit" (can i have some money).
When one is not acting according to his habit or out of the character, you should have known and detect that something is coming or something is not right somewhere.
The system works with strangers too, but you first have to know which group they belong to. You can make your evaluation base on any one of the group's common characteristic and habits . From there onwards you can definitely anticipate which way they would go ...
But you cant be too personal and take into heart of all your findings. You just have to learn to live with it. You may not like what you discover but you should just laugh it off and be above it all , because we are all human, not angels.
Its fun to learn about people, but we must not forget that we have our own traits and characters that can be amusement or annoyance to others too.
Observe and you will learn.
It takes many many years for one to differentiate the various kinds of patterns in different people. But usually some common traits in certain group of people would have the same pattern of actions.
Take a look around you.You can even start observing the ones close to you, those friends. relatives and even family member.
We are all actually aware of the patterns with those close to us, like a brother of yours who suddenly becomes overly talkative and friendly with you, you will somehow know already at the back of your mind that the conversation will later end with ... "..pinjam duit sikit" (can i have some money).
When one is not acting according to his habit or out of the character, you should have known and detect that something is coming or something is not right somewhere.
The system works with strangers too, but you first have to know which group they belong to. You can make your evaluation base on any one of the group's common characteristic and habits . From there onwards you can definitely anticipate which way they would go ...
But you cant be too personal and take into heart of all your findings. You just have to learn to live with it. You may not like what you discover but you should just laugh it off and be above it all , because we are all human, not angels.
Its fun to learn about people, but we must not forget that we have our own traits and characters that can be amusement or annoyance to others too.
Observe and you will learn.
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